Saturday, October 1, 2011

Communication Evaluation

The task of interviewing myself as a communicator, along with others evaluating me was very insightful and beneficial.  I was able to learn more about myself and what others saw in me.  I have always felt nervous when speaking in large groups or in public.  I tend to rehearse repeatedly prior to speaking in public and often thought I was viewed this way as well.  One insight from the evaluation that I found surprising, was that my family member and a parent from my parent group did not view me as uncomfortable or anxious when speaking in groups or in public.  One insight I gained this week was that I appear more comfortable than I thought I was when speaking in groups or in public.  I need to gain confidence in my speaking abilities within this area.  Hearing how other people view me gives me more confidence and encourages me to do this more often.  Another insight I have gained this week was learning about my strength in listening.  I have always enjoyed listening to others and being in the position to help or encourage. It is reassuring to know that I am being viewed that way and hope to continue to listen effectively.  This assignment was rewarding and insightful in many ways.  I hope to continue to learn more about myself and others in terms of communication and ways to be a more effective communicator.

4 comments:

  1. Angie,

    That is awesome that others view you as calm when public speaking. You must be doing something right if others do not even notice your anxiety. I think we can often be own worst enemy or in this sense more critical of ourselves. As it turns out in your case, you are an effective communicator, so keep up the good work!

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  2. Angie,
    It is reassuring to be viewed by others as a stronger communicator than you yourself realized. I viewed myself as aggressive significant, which is pretty negative. However, others thank God did not view me that way. I do however think that I need to work on being less aggressive in communicating.

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  3. Angie
    Hi!!! It is funny how others view us better than how we view ourselves! I also am able to speak well infront of others that was my strong point!

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  4. Hey Angie, I get nervous speaking in to a large crowd also. You are right Angie knowing the results of how other people viewed us, we can capitalize on it and try to work to change those ways about ourselves

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