My Connections to Play

Children's Quotes

Children learn as they play. Most importantly, in play children learn how to learn.

O. Fred Donaldson
Contemporary American martial arts master

Almost all creativity involves purposeful play.

Abraham Maslow
American psychologist
1908–1970
 

As a child, my play was supported by my family, cousins, and friends. My family would create opportunities for me to play with other kids that were in my life. The type of play was not necessarily created for me, however, the opportunity to explore my environment was. Play for me, as a child, involved playing outdoors, helping my dad outside, playing house and kitchen, and helping my mom around the house. When playing with other kids, we built forts outside in the woods and in the barn. We spent a lot of time on the swing set and riding bikes. Looking back, I remember just loving to be around other kids and having fun.

I feel there are many similarities and differences in the way play is today, compared to when I was a child. One similarity I see, is how kids enjoy play. Children use their imaginations and are very creative when involved in play. Young children continue to be involved in dramatic play such as playing house, kitchen, or school. I also see how children enjoy playing with one another. One of the biggest differences in play that I notice is the amount of time children spend outdoors. Many children spend a lot of time indoors playing video games and watching TV. When I was younger, spending time in front of the TV was not an option. Because it was not part of my everyday routine, I never expected it or missed it. Another difference in play that I see is the amount of toys children have. Because of all the toys, children are less likely to use their imaginations and be creative. One example of this, is instead of building a fort with their parents or friends, they are bought for them. I hope children are given the opportunity to enjoy being a child. Looking back at my childhood, some of the happiest times I remember, is playing outdoors with my sister and cousins and being a kid.

We don't often think about the impact play has on individuals as adults. It is true, adults don't often engage in play like children do. However, play gives us the foundation that molds us to who we become. Many life long lessons are learned, as children, while we are involved in the many different kinds of play.